Safari - Not!

Vania and I went on Safari. It was essentially a buffet dinner (on par with Old Country Buffet) in the desert. It was fun. We started with a sand dune ride in a SUV. Our driver was a teenager, definitely not more than twenty years old. The tour operator described the ride as similar to a rollercoaster. Not quite. But, it was thrilling in its own way. You definitely felt the low lunges into the sand.

The sand dune ride ended at the barbecue location where we (well, not me) immediately got in line for a camel ride. About a hundred people, four camels. I am not exaggerating when I say the climb aboard the camel's hump lasted longer than the actual ride. Don't laugh.

We entered the campsite to find a seat among rows of legless tables and pillows. The pillows were incredibly thick and remarkably comfortable. However, by the time dinner ended, Vania and I found our way to the one tent that had cushioned bench seating.

See the tent behind us. That is where we repaired to when the
low seating became too much for our knees. 

The food was essentially non-descript (Briyani chicken and rice, vegetables, labneh, salad, an orange and um ali for dessert) but sufficiently tasty. Labneh (a kind of cream cheese) and Um ali are the only Arabian foods I've had so far
(I'll tell you about the food in another post - suffice to say that there is a Pizza Hut, KFC and Krispy Kreme within view of my hotel/apartment window). Um ali is delicious. It is similar to bread-pudding. It tastes great as a hot dessert or a cold cereal for breakfast.

There was a floor show. Really, a floor, about 15ft x 15ft laid out in the center of the guest seating. It consisted of a lone belly dancer. She was quite good. But, there needed to be more dancers to make the performance truly entertaining. Tinesha and her fellow artists would have livened things up quite a bit.

Then, it was time to go home. The entire event was well-managed, efficient, and sufficient. There was nothing really safari-like about it. But, we had a good time.

The best part of the evening was the night sky. It was glorious. The clear dark night, the moon and stars were worth the cost and ride to the desert.    

Shorn

I have taken to wearing a head covering. No one, absolutely no one has required it of me. Also, no one at my school has in any way made me feel uncomfortable about my appearance. There was a period of adjustment for the students and the men. After all, I am one of only three females in my school building, and one of maybe ten women on the entire campus of two schools. All other teachers, administrators, custodian, security personnel, grounds keepers, clerks, managers, IT techs, and students are male. This represents approximately 450 men and boys.

Racially, I am fairly comfortable. Most are people of color. Of the teaching staff at my school, six hail from Africa (Uganda, Sudan, Camaroon, Ghana, Zimbabwe, and Somalia - two of these fellas are Brits), four from the Phillipines, two from India, an Egyptian, Jordanian (you remember him from earlier posts), Iranian, and an Arab. There are two men from England and an American. Fascinating isn't it?

Anyway, wherever I go, I get stares. Not because I am a foreigner or even

because I am a woman. Fujairah (and the UAE as a whole) is overrun with non-Emiratis. Most are from India and the Phillipines. Most, of course, are men because of the construction and labor work. However, there are many Filipino and other non-Emirati women. Google will tell you that most of the nations in the world are represented in the UAE. I think the primary reason for the gawking I get is because my hair is cut really low to the scalp.  And, it, well, it isn't straight.

It would seem that no people in the world who have been exposed to western

Ok, I chose this photo, not because it goes with
the story, but because I totally love this pose! LOL.

ideas are immune to western standards of beauty. Even the students have remarked on the complexion of someone's skin. A student was insulted by the insinuation that a man darker than me was his father. It did not matter that the man in question was also Emirati. Anyway.

The stares are especially noticeable in the malls. These places are frequented by native women and children. I imagine that the gawkers think I have committed some great immorality that resulted in my shorn head. I feel like Hester.

So, I decided for my own comfort I would wear a head covering. The effect was immediate. And, to prove that it was not imaginable, on the first day I wore a head covering, I received no fewer than three comments of approval from students and one comment from the Jordanian. Each expressed how beautiful I looked.

I am way to proximate to Africa to have to endure such standards. On the other hand, of course, you know, perms sell real well on the dark continent.  

Postscript:  As I am writing this post, I just got a text from a female, Muslim, Somalian-Born, British colleague/friend informing me that tomorrow (01 February 2014) is National Hijab Day, and that I should wear mine to work tomorrow. Hijab is the head scarf worn by Muslim women with their abayas. So funny. 

My Abaya Experience

You know I had to get one for myself. 

I purchased a lovely abaya from a "local" merchant who assured me that his insignia on my gown would impress the natives. "Local" because none of the abayas are actually designed and created in the Emirates. Mine came from India. It is very pretty, and I really enjoy wearing it. I don't feel in the least confined or subjugated. Of course, mine is a tourist's experience. Anyway, the material is incredibly light and flows very prettily. The fit is surprisingly attractive. 

Thus far, I have worn my abaya on two occasions. 

My photos are not good enough.
You really have to see the Grand Mosque for yourself. 
It is magnificent. 

When Vania visited, she and I toured the Grand Mosque in Abu Dhabi. Naturally, women are required to be fully covered while visiting the mosque. Women did not have to wear an abaya, but there should be no visible flesh. There is a dress code for men as well; slacks (no shorts), shirts - pretty simple. Men should not wear writing on their t-shirts that might be offensive.

There is a beautiful water treatment outside the main entrance to the Grand Mosque. 
Two bays contain hundreds of gallons of crystal clear blue water. So pretty. 

This is my favorite spot in the Grand Mosque. Through this glass door, you see rows of decorative pillars. The pillars, alone, are beautiful. However, viewing them through this door enhances their beauty. 

I first wore my abaya to school for National Day (similar to the U.S. Independence Day). Emiratis celebrate the establishment of their nation on 2 December. Celebrations usually last two days. At school, the students dress in traditional clothing - kandora for males (which is what they usually wear when not in school). Presentations are made, classrooms compete for best National Day decoration, and an assembly is held at which a non-Emirati teacher is awarded a prize for the best traditional dress. Guess who won. Yes, me! I was tickled pink - or, rather black.  

The three gentlemen are teacher colleagues.
The hijab, right sleeve and front left section of my abaya are embroidered with gold aplaque.
My hijab (head scarf) is traditional, but I tied in more of an African head wrap style.

The nicest part of my abaya experience was that the Emiratis (students, faculty, community) really appreciated the respect the westerners demonstrated by wearing the traditional clothing. Even at my hotel/apartment, staff who were used to my usual clothng, smiled and commented when they saw me in an abaya. 

The student and colleague reactions were the best. Several said "You look beautiful Miss Karla!" One student (who looks like a teenage Harry Belafonte - for real) stopped me and said to me "I'm serious Miss, you look beautiful!". Another student (I am not exaggerating here) came into my room, took a seat, and licked his lips. ROTFL. Quite a few male colleagues expressed their admiration. I was told multiple times by students and faculty how appealing I looked in the abaya. All covered up. Nothing showing but my smile. 

Go figure. 

Burj Khalifah

The Burj Khalifah is currently the tallest building in the world. It is located in Dubai, UAE. It really is a beautiful site to behold. Though, it kinda reminds me of a pencil. The designers have situated the building very well. The Burj Khalifa is positioned in a small body of water so that, despite the massive numbers of buildings that surround it, the Burj Khalifa can be comfortably seen from many vantage points. 

I love this building! Just behind are steps that lead to a courtyard area that can fit many people who want to gaze at the Burj Khalifa. To the left and right of the courtyard are restaurants that offer al fresco dining. This location is just a few minutes walk from where Vania and I were staying during our Dubai visit. 

These is the entrance to a really posh hotel and relatively small shopping mall. The Dubai Mall is just a short walk inside and to the right. You can see a bit of the Burj Khalifa at the top right of this photo. This area is within five minutes walking distance of the apartment where Vania and I were staying during her visit. The apartment belonged to a colleague who gone back to the states on holiday. 

Three Things, Four

There are three things I will miss the most when I return to my real life; four things that will make my heart long for the UAE. 

1.  taxi rides
2.  dry cleaning
3.  doormen
4.  the view

I know what you are thinking. All of these things can be found in any major city in the U.S. The difference here in the UAE is the cost. 

Taxi rides are so cheap that I use them like personal chauffeurs. I have the mobile numbers of three drivers that I can call at any time to ferry me about Fujairah or to any of the other emirates if I am so inclined. I (along with my carpool companions) am picked up at my hotel/apartment every morning and chauffeured to work; the same driver reports to my school in the afternoon to take me (and my companions) back home. The roundtrip cost, including tip, is 10 dirhams (about $2.73). If I do not want to carpool, I would only pay 20 dirhams roundtrip (or, about $5.46). You recognize this is cheaper than the CTA. 

Moreover, to travel by taxi to the capital and largest emirate, Abu Dhabi, the cost is approximately AED 450 (or about $122). One can get to Abu Dhabi by motor coach for just AED 50 (or about $14), but the ride is nearly five hours. The taxi ride takes just under three hours, and is far more comfortable. 

If I feel like shopping or the big city life, I can taxi to Dubai in just under an hour for about AED 162 (about $45). To travel to Dubai from Fujairah is sort of like the time it takes to get to Michigan Avenue in Chicago from one of the farther suburbs on a heavy traffic route; except, there is no traffic when traveling on the highways of the UAE. However, once you get to Abu Dhabi or Dubai (especially), traffic can be monstrous. 

Dry cleaning is cheap. I can have 20 items cleaned for about 120 dirhams (about $32). The second best thing about dry cleaning is that I don't have to iron my clothes. My clothes, including my workout pants, slacks, and shorts, arrive pressed and on hangers (ok, that's just like home, but you get the point - the cost allows me to use dry cleaning service exclusively to clean my clothes). The third best thing about my particular dry cleaner is that he provides pick up and delivery service! I don't know if I can return to laundering. Still, I suppose I will have to once I return home. Woe is me. 

Doormen are a luxury here just as they are in the U.S. Because I live in a hotel, I am able to enjoy this service daily. There is always a familiar face to greet me in the morning when I leave, and in the afternoon when I return from work. The doormen provide a wonderful sense of safety, and I like that there are several people at my address who know me by name. 

What I absolutely love the most about the doormen is that I never have to carry anything. This is particularly valuable after grocery shopping. I just taxi to the (Target/Wal Mart style) grocery store at the very nearby mall. When I finish shopping, a clerk will bring my bags to the taxi stand, and load them into a waiting cab. I, then, taxi back to my hotel/apartment where a doorman will immediately open the door, and deftly retrieve my groceries from the taxi and deliver them to my room via the service elevator as I saunter through the lobby to take the guest elevators to meet the doorman just as he arrives at my door. This is the life. Sigh. 

The view. I simply could not afford such a sight in Chicago. While I appreciate my own home, if I was to purchase another place, I would make sure to buy something across from a park or on a very high floor. My number one priority in purchasing would be a place where nothing obstructs the view from my windows. 

This desk is where I do all of my writing (and Korean drama viewing).
Originally, the desk was in the bedroom. I moved it to this window so that
I could enjoy the view (just behind the curtains). 

Early morning. Just after sunrise. The sky is spectacular.

Night view obviously. My camera phone could not, in any way,
capture the amazing sight of the moon. Still, I took
the photo anyway - just to commemorate the moment. The darkness beyond is the Arabian Gulf. At night, I can see the lights of the oil tankers lined up to retrieve their precious cargo to transport to points west.